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The 10 Reasons Why No One Knows What They’re Doing in Their 20s
Why is it that asking someone about what they’re doing (or want to do) with their life tend to drag down the conversation. Talk about movies and music, and they’re happy and engaged. Ask them about their ambitions in life, and the light in their eyes goes out. People don’t want to talk about their future, career, or school.
How profoundly sad is that? Why is talking about what you want to do in life a boring subject? Shouldn’t it be the most exciting of all?
This lack of direction is crippling, and it comes in part from society telling us that taking certain steps when we’re young will result in success and happiness later, like life is a magical machine—drop in a college degree, a corporate job, a house with a picket fence and a 401k, and out pops a happy life. We all know life has never been that simple, especially not now.
Just because you’re busy doesn’t mean you know what you’re doing. If you’re in school, great. If you’ve got a good job, well done. But why are you doing the things you do? Where will you be next year? How about ten years from now? Where do you want to be, and how do you plan on getting there?
It seems that people are going down a blind path in the hope that it will all work out.
Why gamble the one life you have to live?
